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Guest Post ~ “Beyond Steering: Are you Listening?”

Wednesday, December 19, 2012 @ 10:12 AM

It’s no surprise that engaged leaders are the linchpin to success of any change effort. What may be surprising is how often leaders miss the mark due to listening and communication gaps. In fact, a study by LeadershipIQ.com revealed that the number one reason CEOs are fired is due to mismanaging change. Specifically, findings showed “a failure on the CEO’s part to properly motivate employees and managers, and more specifically, to adequately sell the need to change course.”

True sponsorship goes well beyond participating at steering committees and funding approvals to include active, visible listening and leadership. What does this look like? It’s a series of micro decisions all day long to be accountable for change through listening and communicating. How do you know if you are doing it right? When your sponsor role becomes less about meetings and funding and more about conversations with people at all levels in your organization. You will know you hit the listening sweet spot when you begin to get really tough questions, from all levels in your organization.

These micro decisions add up quickly; either to engagement or missed opportunity. I encourage you to reflect on the following micro decisions:

  • Do I make myself accessible to listen to my teams or is my calendar booked solid?
  • Do I regularly ask my teams, key partners and stakeholders, “How can I support you?”
  • Do I talk with key business leaders and stakeholders about how the change connects to strategy?
  • Do I really take time to listen to stakeholders’ needs and concerns? Do I carve out time to then relay and discuss this information with my team on a timely basis?
  • Do I take time to share my goals for the change and my personal expectations?
  • Do I have a consistent message that I repeat often?
  • Do I take time to use storytelling to inspire others?

When you stack these micro decisions to listen together, they become a series of decisions in a week, a month, a year. They are a force multiplier to successful change.

Take time to reflect on how you can raise your sponsorship game to the next level. Don’t think you have the time to commit to more listening and support? Perhaps the day you are too busy to listen is a day you are simply too busy.

Francie Van Wirkus is a motivational speaker, author of The Competitor in Me series, and coach. She also works with high-level leadership in the insurance and financial services industry on the most challenging issues facing success today. She can be contacted via her Web site link above.

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